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Jul 13, 2023Liked by Lorelei Jonason

This is a wonderful piece! I adore the idea of the Thought Pot, and I think your reflection on how our feelings about writing change and evolve over time is really poignant.

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Thanks! Going to steal it for your classroom? :)

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Jul 15, 2023Liked by Lorelei Jonason

Ha! I just might!

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I realized that I wanted to be a writer when I read Tolkien's Silmarillion, Hobbit, and Lord of the Rings, and wanted to write something that was that spanning.

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Those are some great books. What a lofty goal! I can imagine there might be some pressure with that, though. I hope you're kind to yourself in your pursuit. That's what I've been practicing most lately.

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My second grade teacher was Mrs. Rocky. She let me write chapters of my first fiction story during class instead of doing classwork. It felt like such a huge reward, and it set the tone. Writing is a gift that I receive. It's my own place, my own little universe, and if it was good enough for Mrs. Rocky then I shouldn't ever doubt myself.

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Isn't it wonderful how a supportive teacher can change your whole life's trajectory? Thanks for sharing!

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Jul 24, 2023Liked by Lorelei Jonason

As a teacher myself it’s so important to instil a creative flair not just ‘you need to add more adjectives here’ approach. I write widely (crime fiction, substack, martial arts, comedy scripts) and think a bit of diversity helps to the diet but hey I am me, others find their own flow 😊

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I also like writing widely. I only started memoir writing when my prior marriage went to crap, but I've been enjoying it a lot. And fantasy has always warmed my heart.

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Jul 24, 2023Liked by Lorelei Jonason

That’s so amazing that you pulled writing from something that wasn’t working. Go you, fantastic. Fantasy is a great genre and one that widens the mind for sure

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I think the thing is, I learned so much about myself over the process of figuring out that my marriage was doomed that it just flowed naturally. XD I have changed who I am so wholly and completely, that it seemed helpful and interesting to document the process.

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I really enjoyed this.

I love your notion of writing sedately and of having a small habit and audience.

I have to remind myself often (when I start to get carried away with all my ideas of ‘making bank’ with my writing) that writing is just something I love to do, and that I’ll do it forever no matter how it’s received, so stop putting so much pressure on my writing.

Thanks

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Exactly! Glad this connected with you. :)

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